Attitude will change your life!

Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.


Some people say, our own lives are already all fated since we were born?
There may be really the presence of fate, but we still can change our own lives by changing our attitudes!
Attitudes do have an impact on things will happen in just a split second.
Sometimes you may think of
IF there would be an IF, I would be a millionaire now.
IF there would be an IF, I would not have divorced with him/her.
IF there would be an IF, I would have a better salary, better wife/husband, better life NOW?!

PLEASE, STOP DREAMING!!!
You only live ONCE! There is no take 2 for you, even though there is?
The ending will always be the same if you don't change your attitude.
If you are thinking all these things right now?

Get rid of the IF

“We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.”
― Charles R. Swindoll


Get your life started, living as you are really living.

“Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior. Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.”
― Mahatma Gandhi


Don't waste your precious time on watching the clock ticking over.

That winter, the wind blows.

We, human beings are always being ridiculous when facing contradiction which are not expected before they happen.
A human does not have a reason to live. Does it mean he can't?
We are living so we just want to continue living.
There are loads of reason for us to live and move on our lives.
Even if with none of reason? Since you are living, you are going to continue living!
I just finished watching a drama, which is called That winter, the wind blows.
It's all about
A man who wants to live and a woman who wants to die.
Their fate starts from the woman's brother who has the same name with the man.
This emotional drama brought me tears, laughs, and unexpected scenes underlie towards the climax of the drama.

Curiosity

Intentionally knowing and seeing something from somewhere can lead me to a kind of a dilemma and trigger my curiosity on searching all lame things -.-
Ugh, I wish I didn't know this!
Curiosity is going to overwhelm me unwittingly.
Why do I not have such a STRONG curiosity on my studies instead?
Gosh... Be conscious, girl!
Do not get affected, OKAY?

Rainy Day

My heart has been utterly flooded by the rain.
I couldn't help myself from loving it and listening the sound of the rain.
I could only hear the sound of the rain on the roof, nothing more.
The sound of the rain drops splattering off the roofs and off the flowers, the leaves and the rocks were enchanting
—to some extent I guess these gave the surrounding an almost spiritual quality.
Cool breeze was blowing in my face, I inhaled the clean scent of the rain, being alive made me feel blessed.
Thanks for everything.
Learning to be grateful is a lesson, which we need to learn in our lifetime.
Get rid of the hatred, sadness, despair and selfishness toward the freedom.

Life is short

"Dare to Be

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

When there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.

When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

When love hurts you, dare to love again.

When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.

When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.

When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.

When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

Dare to be the best you can –

At all times, Dare to be!"
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free


Sometimes you may still feel perplexed, even after you have determined which route you are going to your future. It's okay to be that way.
This is what we call - L I F E.
No matter which route you are going to, it's all your choice, you are the one who faces it and dominates all along your lifetime.
The past makes you stronger as you have been through countless obstacles since you were born. You are able to fight to the no-end-day, not to give up in the halfway of your life.
We can make anything happen! Nothing is impossible with your beliefs.
It's never too late to start over and learn again.

HIT THE ROAD!

TAKE THE RISK!

FEAR NOTHING!

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Everyone longs to seek for serenity

Do you remember the moment you used to be the happiest person in the world?
Do you remember the moment you learnt to crawl, walk and talk, and who were the ones guided you through your toddlerhood?
Do you remember the last moment you laughed from the deep of your heart instead of faking your smile?
Once you feel frustrated, try to reminisce the past, which somehow can lead you penetrate to different perspectives of your obstacles.

Walking out the door toward the gate that would lead you to freedom, if you do not leave your bitterness and hatred behind, you will still be confined in your own world with misery.

It's interesting to have cycles, which will not cease since they have started.
Meditating alone in the place where you feel very comfy is not a waste of time,
Embrace with the nature.
Emptying out your mind with peace.
Enjoy the moment and laugh out loud with your beloved ones.

Rest is not idleness, and to lie on the grass under the trees on a spring day, listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is by no means a waste of time.
We only live once.
We all have an expiration date after that we will never come back again.
I am saying that so you can cherish and treasure each moment in your life and be grateful that you are here and you are UNIQUE!

C'mon! Cheer up :D
Wear your BIG BIG smile everyday!

How to enjoy life?

How to make our lives interesting?
Sometimes you may think of why is my life so lifeless? dull? boring? lengthy?
This is what we will think of when we get bored of doing nothing new and challenging.
This kind of situation will always lead you to demotivation.
All we need to learn is to keep ourselves motivated on our routines, career, study.
Keep yourself moving! Look forward to your DREAM! Just GO AHEAD!
You may think these approaches are silly, yet they work for me (they may be feasible for you, too)
Just give it a try, it won't hurt. :D
Get some catch phrases (to motivate yourself)
Write something about your dream (grab it and read it through once you feel blue about your life)
Grimace in front of the mirror/front camera of phone
Smile like an idiot (this is what I am used to do LOL) exactly like this photo - see below